How to build relationship with Teens in ICT Era

Kank, as a parent and teacher I am concerned about the behavior of teenagers covered communicate with parents ..?

Every child is basically  unique as individuals, individual differences so unwise if the child is required to have the same in all fields, especially if the child rather than compare. This is the most important principle in interacting with children. Therefore, building a harmonious relationship with the child should focus on the uniqueness of each difference owned teens.

The principle of harmonious communication with the teen, which is trying to learn to recognize and understand the expectations of desire and anxiety faced by adolescents. Given the ease in the era of information and communication technology (ICT era) every child has a need to be noticed, loved and appreciated so that not infrequently they pour their needs through its social networking. And not infrequently they fall in  communication activities misguided.

Building  relationships with teenager  must be preceded by understanding the needs and desires, consider the child can understand the mindset of parents will only cause conflict .  The assume all adolescence  have the same absorption in the communication process is the most dangerous, because it would lead to misunderstandings, conflicts and uprising. Empathize with adolescents not mean to equate averaged competency of adolescents and teenagers same behave. Empathy expecting that question is to understand each unique teen and understand every teenager needs to be treated as an individual who does not  compared .

Interacting with adolescents will be more successful if you as parents and teachers can imagine set back when you became a teenager that  first built . Interaction is a deep understanding of the desire to be treated as a teenager when you became last memories being teenager.  To understand adolescent behavior change following current with their  needs, desires, hopes and anxieties .

"Speak  with teenager depend on  their development  mind  as every individual is unique and different, so you can interact and build relationships with them". Kank  Hari